One of the signatures of this blog is its ability to rest. Well, that means the owner must “feel right” to write another post. It is this stranglehold of “feeling right” that interests me today.
So it all started a while ago, when noises started piling up my hidden dirt. How long can one stand not digging them out? For me, it is just as long as I could remember. The hunt for “feeling right” could be forever, so long as you have some imagination or expectation. In my case, it is about convincing me through reasons or logic. Step by step explanation would be the perfect way for me. I might get you slowly, but that is not a matter, I feel comfortable that way. But a hunt could turn into haunt, when you mix two people together, let them be face to face and pointing right, it is not so comfortable now.
So there will be moments where relaxing your arm could help relax the other person’s arm. But there are also some point of time where you will need to keep your right arm straight up and be firm pointing “the” way. It all lies within your values and so it shall dictate your choices or initiative to lead – whatever. Lead a social movement, lead an argument, lead your friends to camping…lead your child, lead your life.
So this “feel right” factor is just about normal, like everything else I believe, two-sided. If you know it just well, you lead well. If you are too fond of it, you might be bound to a more adventurous and exciting journey.